John William O’Brien, age 81, was born on June 25, 1944., in Richmond, Indiana to the late Joseph G. O’Brien and Lillian G. Longmeyer O’Brien.  He was proceeded in death by his beloved wife of 41 years, Jacqueline Elaine O’Brien, as well as his brothers Sumner M. Oliver; Joseph I. O’Brien; Frederick A. O’Brien, and his sister Mary Mickens.

John graduated from Richmond High School in 1963.  Shortly thereafter, he enlisted in the United States Army in July 1963, proudly serving three years active duty.  On September 9, 1967.  he married the love of his life, Jacqueline Elaine Hopkins, and together they were blessed with two sons: John William O’Brien II and William Robert O’Brien.

John was a dedicated employee of the United Parcel Service, where he worked for 25 years. He made history as the first Black driver in Centerville, Indiana, and he earned recognition for his outstanding 25 years of safe driving and induction into the Circle of Honor.

After retiring, John relocated to Murrieta, California, where he enjoyed 22 wonderful years surrounded by his loving family.  His retirement was filled with joy — taking his grandchildren to and from school, maintaining his pristine front yard, keeping his car spotless, walking daily, and watching his westerns.

John was a man of warmth, integrity, and kindness.  His easy smile and generous spirit made him a friend to all.  He lived a life devoted to service, leaving behind a legacy of love, patience, humility, and compassion that continues to inspire everyone who knew him.

John departed this life peacefully at home in Murrieta, California, on Sunday, November 2, 2025.

He leaves to cherish his memory his two sons, John William O’Brien II and William Robert O’Brien, his daughter-in-law, Carmen M. O’Brien, wife of William, five grandchildren: Alex and Latanya Pittman, and Elliott and Kassandra Pittman, Janelle O’Brien, William O’Brien II, and Tierra O’Brien; and three great-grandsons: Michael, Kayden, and Alex Pittman III, all of Murrieta, California.  He is also survived by his sister Barbara Purcell of Indianapolis, Indiana, and brother Harry and wife Brenda O’Brien of Georgia, and a host of nieces, nephews, and dear friends.

John’s life was a true example of dedication, faith, and love —- a legacy that will continue to live on in the hearts of all who knew him.

TO THOSE I LOVE AND THOSE WHO LOVE ME

When I am gone, release me, let me go, I have so many things to see and do. You mustn’t tie yourself to me with tears.  Be thankful for our beautiful years.  You can only guess how much you gave to me in happiness. I thank you for the love each has shown.  And please don’t worry, I’m not alone, so grieve awhile for me, if grieve you must, then let your grief be comforted by trust.  It’s only for a time that we must part, so bless the memories within you heart.  I won’t be far away, for life goes on, so if you need me, call and I will come.  Though’ you can’t see me or touch me, I’ll be near, and If you listen with you heart, you’ll hear.  All my love around you soft and clear, and then, when you must come this way alone, I’ll greet you with a smile and say –

“Welcome Home!”