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Gerald William Ray, Jr.

February 9, 1966
–
November 9, 2023

Our hearts are saddened to announce the loss of Gerald “Jerry” William Ray who passed away on November 9, 2023 at the age of 57 . Survived by his wife of 24 years Amelia Estrada Ray His children : Austin Ray, Stacy Ray, Jonathan Lopez, Emily Lopez, and his son in law Elmer Diaz. His grandpaboys : Isaac, Elijah , Joseph & Julian His grandpa girls: Miah, Janette , Jocelynn & Jaylah as well as his family and friends he loved dearly.
He grew his wings and now in heaven he watches down on us .
He was born on February 19, 1966 in Orange County, California . Jerry had a truly humorous and lively personality , always there when anyone needed a helping hand. He knew how to fix just about anything. He was the man for the job as we would say. He was also never shy to speak his mind and or throw in a curse word or two or few! Weekend yard sales will definitely miss him also.
Jerry also had a passion for “woodworking” a hobby that he had recently developed. Turning tree branches into beautiful sculptures. He was a man who lived his faith every day. He was always there for us, always ready to lend a hand, always putting others before himself.
We will miss him dearly. Your life was a blessing to us all. His memory will be cherished by all who knew him.

Tribute Wall

Karen Knoch Becker
I love you dearly my son my first born son and I prayed so many times for you to turn your life towards the Lord and you did at one point but you being with whom you ended your over was the wrong one as it should have been the Lord Jesus Christ ut son I love you n missyounsomvery much n I wish you had called me as I would have got you help as that’s what you needed notnsome woman screaming at you and should have got you help but all I know Jerry s tgat mama still loves you and will always forever more my precious Jerry Love your mother Karen Knoch Necker
July 7 / 2024
Isela
Jerry will be dearly missed! His jokes and curse words were always hilarious. We will definitely miss him showing up to his Suegrrras (in his voice) house with random stuff he bought a yard sale, anything from salt lamps to coffee mugs! We all knew how much he loved his wife and his kidzz! He was far from perfect but he loved from much by his family. Rest Easy Brother in Law.
November 23 / 2023
Laura Estrada
Rest in peace Jerry! We will miss the crazy white guy in the family! Lol you definitely earned your place with the Estrada family . I pray you find peace and comfort with your beloved brother in law, Roman, whom loved you so much. I can hear him yelling at you “Pinche Jerry” watch over my aunt , she still needs you! Send her signs. Until we all meet again ..
November 23 / 2023
Diana Estrada
Jerry’s passing still feels unreal! He will be missed but kept alive with all the memories he left behind! From cooking to construction he was always there to give a hand! Rest in peace Uncle Jerry!
November 24 / 2023
David Hearndon
He is and was an awesome human being. He would help and protect anyone in need. I will miss him dearly, this Brother was there in my weakest point. Rest in God's power and grace. I know I will see you again.
November 21 / 2023
Brother Erik
To the Ray family, Our condolences for your loss. Our prayers and thoughts are frequent for those who suffer due to the pain of losing someone. We all experience this loss but the Bible promises that soon death will end at Revelation 7:15-17 The scriptures has provided comfort for the loved ones I've lost and shows what God's plan is for those who have passed. The encouraging video below gives comfort from the Bible and about the end of death https://bit.ly/truthlifedeath Take peace knowing our God is comforting you
November 23 / 2023
Linda Holdman
November 30 / 2023
Linda Holdman
Jerry when I think of you I see that adorable little boy with the huge smile for everyone!! You loved playing with your cousins! And we would walk back to the bird farm and you loved for them to sing! You’ve always been a person who cares for everyone and would do anything you could to help someone that needed it! You grew into a loving caring man! I have always carried you in my heart and I always will! Let this be the next journey for you! Give your love whole heartedly to your Dad! Make up for the time you didn’t have here on earth! I know you love Amelia and the kids with all your heart! I can’t put into words how much I love you! I will truly miss you! And you will be in my heart , until I join you! KISS GMA & Gpa for me! I love you so much babe! Aunt Linda
November 30 / 2023

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Karen Knoch Becker
I love you dearly my son my first born son and I prayed so many times for you to turn your life towards the Lord and you did at one point but you being with whom you ended your over was the wrong one as it should have been the Lord Jesus Christ ut son I love you n missyounsomvery much n I wish you had called me as I would have got you help as that’s what you needed notnsome woman screaming at you and should have got you help but all I know Jerry s tgat mama still loves you and will always forever more my precious Jerry Love your mother Karen Knoch Necker
July 7 / 2024
Isela
Jerry will be dearly missed! His jokes and curse words were always hilarious. We will definitely miss him showing up to his Suegrrras (in his voice) house with random stuff he bought a yard sale, anything from salt lamps to coffee mugs! We all knew how much he loved his wife and his kidzz! He was far from perfect but he loved from much by his family. Rest Easy Brother in Law.
November 23 / 2023
Laura Estrada
Rest in peace Jerry! We will miss the crazy white guy in the family! Lol you definitely earned your place with the Estrada family . I pray you find peace and comfort with your beloved brother in law, Roman, whom loved you so much. I can hear him yelling at you “Pinche Jerry” watch over my aunt , she still needs you! Send her signs. Until we all meet again ..
November 23 / 2023
Diana Estrada
Jerry’s passing still feels unreal! He will be missed but kept alive with all the memories he left behind! From cooking to construction he was always there to give a hand! Rest in peace Uncle Jerry!
November 24 / 2023
David Hearndon
He is and was an awesome human being. He would help and protect anyone in need. I will miss him dearly, this Brother was there in my weakest point. Rest in God's power and grace. I know I will see you again.
November 21 / 2023
Brother Erik
To the Ray family, Our condolences for your loss. Our prayers and thoughts are frequent for those who suffer due to the pain of losing someone. We all experience this loss but the Bible promises that soon death will end at Revelation 7:15-17 The scriptures has provided comfort for the loved ones I've lost and shows what God's plan is for those who have passed. The encouraging video below gives comfort from the Bible and about the end of death https://bit.ly/truthlifedeath Take peace knowing our God is comforting you
November 23 / 2023
Linda Holdman
November 30 / 2023
Linda Holdman
Jerry when I think of you I see that adorable little boy with the huge smile for everyone!! You loved playing with your cousins! And we would walk back to the bird farm and you loved for them to sing! You’ve always been a person who cares for everyone and would do anything you could to help someone that needed it! You grew into a loving caring man! I have always carried you in my heart and I always will! Let this be the next journey for you! Give your love whole heartedly to your Dad! Make up for the time you didn’t have here on earth! I know you love Amelia and the kids with all your heart! I can’t put into words how much I love you! I will truly miss you! And you will be in my heart , until I join you! KISS GMA & Gpa for me! I love you so much babe! Aunt Linda
November 30 / 2023

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