Winona Louise Stipati

December 10, 1937
May 31, 2026
Devoted wife, cherished mother, beloved Grammie, and the heart of every holiday gathering

WINONA LOUISE STIPATI DECEMBER 10, 1937 – MAY 31, 2026

Winona Louise Stipati (nee Remsberg), 88, passed away peacefully at her home in Murrieta, California, on May 31, 2026. She was Noni, Mom, and Grammie, a cherished wife, mother, mother-in-law, grandmother, great-grandmother, great-great-grandmother, sister, and friend. Her presence will be deeply missed by all who knew her.

Winona was born December 10, 1937, in Tiffin, Ohio. Her family moved to Ypsilanti, Michigan, in 1943. She graduated from Ypsilanti High School in 1956. It was in Ypsilanti that she met the love of her life – Frank Joseph Stipati. They were married in 1956 and later moved to Chicago. In 1977, the family moved to Southern California. Winona and Frank enjoyed 60 years together until Frank’s passing in December, 2016. In addition to raising six children, Winona worked outside the home from the time she was 15 until she retired in 2015.

She was an avid reader and especially loved mysteries. She also enjoyed watching mysteries on TV and never got tired of Murder She Wrote. But her favorite show of all time was I Love Lucy. She’d get so excited if she thought an episode was on that she’d never seen, but after a minute or two she’d say, “Oh darn. I’ve seen this one. It’s the one where Lucy . . . .” She even had an I Love Lucy themed 75th birthday party. Everyone who knew her knew that shopping was also near the top of her favorite pastimes. She couldn’t be bothered with online shopping. That wasn’t really shopping to her. It was just “buying” and not any fun at all.

Winona is survived by her sister, Linda; her children, Rosemarie Stipati, Kathleen Hoffmann (Thomas), Michele Dugard (Phillip), Frank Stipati (Susan), and Jennifer Stipati; and her grandchildren, Cassandra, Shawn, Toryn, Cody, David, and Kyle.

In addition, her great-grandchildren include Lawrence, Mo’ne, Khalil, Makayla, Graciela, Shawnee-Rose, Jasmine, Moses, Eli, Lola, Keegan, Charlotte, Odin, Frankie, Athena, as well as her great-great-granddaughter Olivia Rose.

Every holiday saw the dinner table filled not only with family, but Winona always checked to see if anyone who was “Stipati adjacent” needed a family to spend the day with. If there was, she welcomed them. She loved Christmas and, to Dad’s chagrin, always got him to put up “just one more” decoration.

Winona was preceded in death by her parents Florence and Calvin, husband Frank, daughter Victoria, great-grandson Solomon, and her sister Janet.

We will celebrate her life at 12:45 PM on July 9, 2026, at the Riverside National Cemetery located at 22495 Van Buren Boulevard, Riverside, California. Please arrive by 12:15.

The family requests that, instead of flowers, donations be made to the Alzheimer’s Association.

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Gladis Gastelum Stipati
Grammy was the best Grammy ever… she always welcomed me into her home with loving arms from the first day I met her. She has sown so much love for me and all her great grandbabies! Nothing compares to Stipati saturdays with her and Grampy and Christmas dinners were always the best! I will miss u dearly Grammy specially seeing you every summer and getting a hug from you was our highlight! Till I see u again Grammy fly high with Grampy and Solly 🥹
June 19 / 2026
Michele Stipati Dugard
My Mom was the strongest person I have ever known. She was my rock and my strength through every difficult moment in my life. She was my biggest cheerleader and supported me my entire life, no matter what crazy idea I had! She loved me unconditionally. She loved me when I wasn’t deserving of her love. She loved me through every struggle and every triumph. She was always my first phone call when I needed to talk to someone and she never gave me bad advice. My mom taught me how to love and how to be the mom I am today. She never shied away from telling me the hard truths and always kept me grounded. She was my hero and my best friend. She was my mom and I miss her so much. I miss her smirk and her feistiness. I miss her hugs and her kisses. I’m so grateful that she was at home with the family when my Dad came and took her home. They’re together again and that means everything to me. I love you, Mom. You are with me always! I haven’t lost my Mom, I’ve gained an angel. Wrap your wings around us and watch over us, like you always did. My heart is broken my heart is full. ♥️
June 19 / 2026
Elijah Stipati
My grammy, Winona ,passed away peacefully in her sleep at 88. She was one of the kindest people I knew, and I’ll never forget the way she laughed or the way she would hug me. She meant everything to our family and will be missed so much. I love you, Grandma, and I’ll carry you with me forever.
June 20 / 2026
Felicia (Leesh to my family)
Her quick wit and sense of humor will always be my favorite 💜I love you and miss you, Noni XOXO
June 19 / 2026
grace
I am go greatful to have called Winona my grammie, she was a beacon of strength, love, and wisdom, whose life was a testament to kindness and resilience. Her warm smile, gentle spirit, and unwavering love touched the lives of everyone she met. She will be deeply missed by our family and all who had the privilege of knowing her, but her legacy of love and cherished memories will forever remain in our hearts.
June 19 / 2026
Lawrence Stackhous
Just remember when I was very little maybe 7 or 8 gramy used to do this amazing thing with my palms it was like “ here’s a crack, here’s a crack and there’s a crack! “Bamm smack my hand” just such a loving and soothing great grandmother will never forget her!!! And the last moments we shared holding hands on her couch!
June 19 / 2026
Debbie DiCostanzo Ventresca
I grew up with Michele as kids and always admired her calmness and infectious smile all while raising 6 kids. She was a beautiful person inside and out I know how close you all were and know she will be missed dearly. Thinking of all of you. She and your dad and Vickie are all watching over you. Much Love
June 19 / 2026

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Gladis Gastelum Stipati
Grammy was the best Grammy ever… she always welcomed me into her home with loving arms from the first day I met her. She has sown so much love for me and all her great grandbabies! Nothing compares to Stipati saturdays with her and Grampy and Christmas dinners were always the best! I will miss u dearly Grammy specially seeing you every summer and getting a hug from you was our highlight! Till I see u again Grammy fly high with Grampy and Solly 🥹
June 19 / 2026
Michele Stipati Dugard
My Mom was the strongest person I have ever known. She was my rock and my strength through every difficult moment in my life. She was my biggest cheerleader and supported me my entire life, no matter what crazy idea I had! She loved me unconditionally. She loved me when I wasn’t deserving of her love. She loved me through every struggle and every triumph. She was always my first phone call when I needed to talk to someone and she never gave me bad advice. My mom taught me how to love and how to be the mom I am today. She never shied away from telling me the hard truths and always kept me grounded. She was my hero and my best friend. She was my mom and I miss her so much. I miss her smirk and her feistiness. I miss her hugs and her kisses. I’m so grateful that she was at home with the family when my Dad came and took her home. They’re together again and that means everything to me. I love you, Mom. You are with me always! I haven’t lost my Mom, I’ve gained an angel. Wrap your wings around us and watch over us, like you always did. My heart is broken my heart is full. ♥️
June 19 / 2026
Elijah Stipati
My grammy, Winona ,passed away peacefully in her sleep at 88. She was one of the kindest people I knew, and I’ll never forget the way she laughed or the way she would hug me. She meant everything to our family and will be missed so much. I love you, Grandma, and I’ll carry you with me forever.
June 20 / 2026
Felicia (Leesh to my family)
Her quick wit and sense of humor will always be my favorite 💜I love you and miss you, Noni XOXO
June 19 / 2026
grace
I am go greatful to have called Winona my grammie, she was a beacon of strength, love, and wisdom, whose life was a testament to kindness and resilience. Her warm smile, gentle spirit, and unwavering love touched the lives of everyone she met. She will be deeply missed by our family and all who had the privilege of knowing her, but her legacy of love and cherished memories will forever remain in our hearts.
June 19 / 2026
Lawrence Stackhous
Just remember when I was very little maybe 7 or 8 gramy used to do this amazing thing with my palms it was like “ here’s a crack, here’s a crack and there’s a crack! “Bamm smack my hand” just such a loving and soothing great grandmother will never forget her!!! And the last moments we shared holding hands on her couch!
June 19 / 2026
Debbie DiCostanzo Ventresca
I grew up with Michele as kids and always admired her calmness and infectious smile all while raising 6 kids. She was a beautiful person inside and out I know how close you all were and know she will be missed dearly. Thinking of all of you. She and your dad and Vickie are all watching over you. Much Love
June 19 / 2026